Unfortunately Side by Side is currently unavailable.
We're working hard to bring it back up for you.
In the mean time please use Elefriends.
If you're worried you can't keep yourself safe right now or need urgent support the quickest way to get help is to call 999 or go to your local A&E.
Our moderators aren't trained counsellors so can't provide 1:1 or emergency support for people in crisis.
If you think this is what you need right now you can find lots of different ways to access support here: